A Buddy Bike
Story - Cassie
From a Sister's Point of ViewMy name
is Cassie and I’m almost 17 years old. I’m writing to tell
you about my brother who has autism, and a special bike that
made a drastic change in his life. At the age of three my
brother, Jesse, was diagnosed with severe autism. At the
time, I was only five, and of course didn’t understand
anything about the disorder. However, neither did my
parents.
My brother could barely
talk, and to this day, at age fourteen, has a very limited
vocabulary, maybe consisting of 75 words at a maximum. For
years, my parents struggled to find a school that would suit
his needs, but their efforts all failed, and in June, 2000,
they founded a school for children with autism called the
Victory School. Although
his disability was extremely difficult to cope with, it
opened up our hearts to the world of autism and other
special needs, and in the process brought our family closer
together in an unimaginable way. By himself, Jesse managed
to find something that everyone in my family would enjoy,
and that was cycling.
Jesse didn’t learn how to
ride bikes on a tricycle, but instead learned immediately on
a two-wheeler. However, as a result of his autism my little
brother didn’t understand the idea of traffic and signs, and
as a result it was too dangerous for him to ride alone.
Bicycling was the one thing that made him smile and laugh
more than any other activity, and my parents didn’t want to
take that away from him, so they purchased a “tag along
bike” for him to use. This attached to the back of my dads
bike, and consisted of pedals and a handlebar for him to
use. But because the younger child sits in the back while
the adult is in the front my brother couldn’t see anything
except my dad’s back, and he could get away with not
pedaling for my dad couldn’t see whether or not he was, and
in some cases he wouldn’t even hold on to the handlebars.
On November 29, 2003 my dad
purchased a used tandem bike, called the “Love Bike” from a
neighbor. The Love Bike was extremely different than any
other one he had ever used, because on this tandem bike, the
child sits in front of the adult, and has his or her own
handlebars, and their own set of pedals, and even brakes.
After the first time on the bike, Jesse’s face glowed with
happiness. Every weekend, he would run upstairs to my
parent’s room fully dressed and even in socks and sneakers
(even if they were on the wrong foot), holding his helmet
and would say, “Bike, Bike, Bike.” If my dad didn’t get up
right away, he would go to his side of the bed and hand him
the helmet, continuously saying “Bike” repetitively. After
my dad got ready they would go on their eighteen-mile bike
ride. I’ve never seen my brother smile so much. My dad
eventually purchased the patent for the bike in my brother’s
special needs trust, and decided that it would be beneficial
for so many other children with and without special needs.
He later named it the “Buddy Bike”. Since then, many diverse
families and many special needs children around the world
are enjoying the Buddy Bike. Many families have been
impacted by the Buddy Bike as you will see by reading the
Customer Comments.
Being only two years older
than Jesse, I was impacted by his autism more than my older
brother and sister who were six and ten years older than
Jesse. I had to witness his tantrums, yells, screams, and
even hits more, while they were away in college or indulged
in high school and its parties. Yet, in my own way, I am
thankful I managed to be so close to him. He opened up my
eyes to an entire new world and I believe he made my heart
much bigger because he made me much more understanding of
children and adults with special needs, and for that I find
myself lucky.
The Buddy Bike changed our
lives, managing to bring our family together especially when
we all go to the Everglades, and ride in Shark Valley
National Park on our fourteen-mile ride, or along Hollywood
Beach as a family. Just as it changed our life, it can
change so many others, and even yours.
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